06.06.14

ADJUSTMENTS

it’s a new month. life has been so different for me over the past two months. i’ve been adjusting to living in this house alone, and then my friend just moved in for a month or two while she looks for her own place. i’ve never lived by myself, and i gotta say it’s kind of nice. while i love having people around me, it’s been interesting to explore my time alone. sometimes it makes me very anxious and other times there’s no where i’d rather be.i assume that will even out to a more neutral place soon. i don’t normally handle large changes in my life very well, so i am doing my best to stay focused on the fact that this is just a phase in my life.

everything feels very up in the air right now, which is suppose is exciting. my career, my love life…all of it. i was inspired by my friend james from bleubird and filled out this goals list too! i’ve always loved thinking about the future. goals. dreams. it’s fun!

Eating / Everyday i wake up and say I am going to eat healthier and almost everyday i fail. i need to cook more often and not eat out almost every single meal!
Drinking / My drink of choice right now is a paloma (tequila, grapefruit soda, lime juice & salt)
Practicing / Alone time and meditation
Mastering / How to poach an egg
Learning / About myself
Trying / To travel as much as I can
Playing / With my cats
Finishing / The things that I start. I tend to come up with ideas and get too overwhelmed to execute them.
Reading / Was Girl Boss any good?
Remembering / It’s okay to take the weekends off.
Wearing / Striped tee shirts and jean shorts. Easy dresses and pons sandals.
Cooking / I would like to know how to make salads I actually have a desire to eat.
Working / On what makes me happy.
Traveling / Yes please. Just booked a trip to France with some good pals. I’ve never been to the South.
Wanting / To have more dinner parties and to find a therapist. Hey, that’s the truth.

try making your own list, it’s a good brain break. happy friday! -bri

above drawing by wasted rita…and just for fun, more dark & humorous drawings…

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    Pink Ronnie says:

    Hey Bri,
    Just wanted to say that I’m thinking of you. You’re going through such a huge adjustment, and it’s so generous of you to share part of your journey with us.
    Hugs,
    Ronnie xo

    This is beautiful bri – love the insight and honesty – Im going to do this over the weekend! So exciting you are going france soon – way to travel and explore. Hang in there clarity will come! XX

    tiffany says:

    yes, #girlboss was GOOD!!

    Your poised honesty is an inspiration and I’m rooting for you, tootsie.

    Natalie says:

    Hi Bri,

    I absolutely loathed eating salads but Love and Lemons (http://www.loveandlemons.com/) have so many good ones that I have actually started to truly enjoy them and learning how to make my own salad dressings. Remember chin up as you go through this new life change. It can only get better :)

    Raven says:

    You got this, Bri. Really tough adjustments, but you’re totally on the right track. Happiness & calmness will come, even if you still feel like it never will. Have a great time exploring France, keep doing those things you love! xoxo

    204 Park says:

    We’re here for you, lady! This list is a great idea. Xo! S

    Taylor says:

    New adjustments are always hard, but from what I see you seem to be doing great. It’s nice to be able to explore yourself in a time like this. I hope you are finding happiness everyday (cats help, always). And we can all use a little therapy.

    xoxo
    Taylor

    Loli says:

    Bri,

    Thanks for sharing so much of your life, even the uncomfortable parts. Traveling with friends cures all.

    xo loli

    Thabata says:

    Hi Bri, I´m writing from so far, I’m Chilean, I’ve recently discovered your blog and I just loved it! The only thing I can tell you is “This too shall pass” I know it is such a cliché but is true, I ended a relationship last year and I had to come back to my parents’ house, it was kind of hard, but I’m glad a took such decision, it was a new opportunity to do everything I wanted.
    Thanks for all your beautiful posts and for sharing!! I really can tell you I know what you are going through. Best Regards from Chile!!! :)

    Anonymous says:

    Love this post bri! Oh you’ll lovvveee the south of France. I was there last year, it’s so beautiful!!<3

    catherine says:

    High-fives, Bri. You’ve got this.

    maggie says:

    This is such an inspiring post. You’ve got this, lady.

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    If you have more of an extrovert personality then being along can be hard. But if you have any introvert in you it can be so valuable! I don’t get a lot of time alone these days but when I do they are so re-charging. I guess it’s about a balance.

    And yes to tequila! The best alcoholic drink in my opinion, always makes me feel relaxed and optimistic :)

    Callie says:

    My talented friend Lyndsay wrote an article about living alone that may be helpful, or at the very least entertaining: http://theeverygirl.com/lessons-learned-from-living-alone

    Big change can be scary, good on you for embracing it!

    yvonne says:

    Great post Bri! You are an inspiration. Wishing you only the best.

    Maelle says:

    Oh how i understand you; i feel like i’ve been making ‘adjustments’ for about a year now…
    Where in the South of France are you going? – if i may ask? – I’m from the south and always tell my friends who live abroad that they MUST come over here whenever they visit France, Paris is overrated anyway 😉

    Hope you will enjoy your trip! and good luck with all the changes; it’s always scary but it gets better eventually.
    xxx

    This is a lovely post and your list of goals is delightful. It can be the worst feeling adjusting to being by yourself again. I never lived alone so after my divorce it was scary and sometimes depressing, but there is a lot of positive in Feeling and just Being. Change is always a bit unsettling at first, but change is the best way that we grow. You have a lot of light that you bring to the world, so it is a great time to focus on yourself and your dreams. Best wishes on your new chapter!

    reni says:

    I can definitely relate. I’ve been going through a little health scare. No diagnosis yet which is the scary part, but it for sure has opened my eyes to whats most important in life. Being happy, helping others, and our loved ones. And I’m guilty of the first photo. Overthinking will be my downfall. Must learn to just relax and enjoy what we’re blessed to have. Good luck finding your happy thought!

    thelittleliongirl.com

    Anni says:

    Take it from me – I went to Nice, France right after an incredibly painful split and it was the best thing I could have done. I won’t lie and say I’m better – I still have days where I wonder how this all hurts so damn much still – but it did spark something curious and happy in me again.

    martaisarollingstone says:

    Bri, thank you for being you – honest, beautiful, talented, sincere and so human.

    Thank you for creating Designlovefest, that space on the Internet that is inspiring me like no other.
    Thank you for bringing some colour and stripes :) into my life with your every blog post or Instagram photo. You sparkle and you shine you light! Thank you.
    Thanks for introducing me (virtually!) to Jen Gotch, Bando, Jesse Chamberlin and the rest of the gang, you all made an Instagram addict out of me! I love seeing the world through your eyes.

    I’m rooting for you, you are the best!
    Marta

    Siobhán says:

    I get great salad inspiration from instagram – check out #ttsalad :) Take care Bri xx

    Olivia M. says:

    I sympathize, same things over here. And that first “quote” or print or whatever it is basically defines me…

    Kristin says:

    Seems that season change. I love living alone it’s nice because I don’t have to worry about other people. I can also keep very weird hours if I need to. I hope everything works out for you.

    Hilary says:

    Enjoy the South of France!
    I have been a few times and I recommend the Rhone Valley wine trail, Avignon, Provence and Nice.

    love you, and will come down and hang out post-france. xx

    Arianne says:

    I’ve already got a therapist so that’s one marked off the list 😉

    I’ve just started mixing lettuce and spinach together for my salad. as long as I have ranch dressing and croutons, I can eat them fine. otherwise, I prefer not to eat vegetables at all.

    Yolonda says:

    Love this. I have bad anxiety when my life has big changes, so I completely relate.

    Audrey says:

    Awesome post Bri, thank you :) Is there any chance you’ll stop by Toulouse ? It’s a gorgeous city, a must see ^^ xxx

    Faith says:

    Hi Bri!–I’ve checked out your blog every day these last few months since I discovered it–just so impressed with your content/photos/work/but mostly with the sense of you that actually manages to come through!
    I really liked this post, makes one know you/think on their own!!
    Keep up your traveling/travel posts–your adventures make me happy–F

    Eli says:

    You are a brave, strong girl – such an inspiration. x
    Re. Salads, I love these books – Avoca Salads (the potato salad recipe in this is particularly good!) & Blazing Salads

    btw you are going to love the South of France, there is one little village I can’t resist visiting almost every time, it’s St.Guilhem le Desert, and the surrounding landscape, incryable!

    aziza says:

    may I personally suggest momentumeducation.com for life-changing self discovery!

    Erin says:

    I completely understand how you feel about living alone versus with people. My mum has been on holiday for the last month and it was my first time ever living completely alone and I loved it. It was lonely at times but I’m quite independent and introverted so I felt completely comfortable.

    Love your list by the way – I think I’m going to do one :)

    Erin, beingerin.com

    Erica says:

    I seriously love reading and rereading your blog. And your honesty and courage to share where you truly are in life is inspiring. Thank you!

    Doing a list like this would be a great weekly exercise just to pause and get my bearings.

    As for salads. I love mixing kale and spinach with corn carrots avocado quinoa black beans a bit of evoo and cayenne pepper.

    Brittany says:

    I think everyone should have a therapist :)

    Erika says:

    The best way to make poached eggs: a good dash of white vinegar into the saucepan of water, then small bubbles, small tornado, 3 minutes. That’s all you’ll ever need to know x

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    You are working through it, and it will take some time. I can teach you how to poach an egg and make amazing salads…

    Ronny says:

    I’m going through something like this too. You are much more positive and productive than I do. Give yourself time and do plenty of fun and adventure things. *hugs

    Caitlin says:

    Hi Bri,

    I have been thinking of you too – I know you’ll be absolutely fine because you seem like an amazing person – just continue taking care of yourself the way you have been. Sending happy sunny vibes your way :)

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